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Post by CowboysDad on Apr 21, 2015 15:58:36 GMT -6
What do you think this means?
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Post by brianwagner on Apr 21, 2015 16:50:57 GMT -6
Wives are generally physically weaker than their husbands (though there are exceptions in a few couples and women have certain physical "strengths" superior to men). But they are certainly softer, more cuddly, and do not appreciate being slapped on the back! :-) So we should open doors for them, stand in front of them when there is a physical threat, carry the luggage, and do most of the heavy lifting!
Perhaps their monthly physical cycle could be viewed as producing regular physical weakness, and physical weakness provides opportunity for spiritual and emotional weakness, in my view. So special care should go towards them in view of this regular "weakness" (ἀσθενης - sickness. And that weakness is associated with one of their greatest roles... giving birth.
You may have noticed that the word "honor" means "value". Imparting value through showing them physical protection and physical comfort and care, builds that intimacy needed in prayers together as a couple. I must admit that I have often failed in these things, treating my wife too often like I want to be treated, like a slap on the back! :-) Doesn't work too well!
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Post by Rich Klein on Apr 22, 2015 14:22:47 GMT -6
We honor our wives by "making their eyes twinkle." The Hebrew of Deuteronomy 24:5 instructs a husband to give his new bride "happiness." The verb is to make glad, joyful; to light up the eyes. "Happy wife, happy life:)"
Enough.
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Post by CowboysDad on Apr 22, 2015 15:09:36 GMT -6
Good advice: don't slap them on the back and make their eyes twinkle!
Brian, from what you wrote do you take it that v. 7 (“being heirs together of the grace of life”) refers to childbirth?
I've tried to systematize the most popular views below: What do you think? a) Honor your wife because like you she has been born again by God’s grace (cf. Rom. 8:17; Eph. 3:6). b) Honor your wife because only then will you be able to win her to Christ (Peter has already mentioned wives with unsaved husbands, 1 Peter 3:1). c) Honor your wife because only then can you fully enjoy all that God has intended for married life. d) Honor your wife because together you have been blessed with children (Psalm 127:3, “Children are a heritage from the LORD").
- Daniel
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